Part 1 of a 2 part Story:
IT WAS THE BEST OF TIMES, IT WAS THE WORST OF TIMES you remember don’t you. The first time, firsts are significant because, well they are the first of whatever. This whatever surrounds the first time you as a man or a boy are singled out of a crowd by a girl or a women.
Leap year and all of its mathematical wonder and planetary splendor; which pulls the human race out of its self minded ways, forcing thoughts of Earth’s pace through the Universe every 4 year’s, stands out most for me by commemorating 1 phrase, Ladies Choice.
(As if women need anymore advantages) I enclosed that statement to emphasize that every 4 years male chauvinism and all of its forms (even subliminal) get laid waste.
Sadie Hawkins is her name, every time I say it (I think my pupils are dilating and I’m tucking in my stomach) I feel the natural order of things turn around. My first time waiting to be chosen by a female was in elementary school as my class learned to square-dance.
( WordPress has branded me Author; I claim all this subliminal psycho-babel as creative license, the book is in the mail, e-mail that is)
Although I could claim her name to have been Sadie Hawkins, I will not, she is faceless and nameless. That’s better for you and I, for the reader who has experienced square dancing you remember that day of choice.
Oh! how did it work out that the popular and acknowledged good-looking people end up choosing one another, it just seemed to work that way. For me it would work out distinctly, my fate cast me with the quiet girl who was not quite coordinated and not quite pretty..yet.
She was not my first choice and I would not be her first choice but in a pinch we would do. I noticed something changed when she picked me, she had pretty eyes, a gentle spirit and I could not remember why the boys in my class didn’t talk to her.
At first I didn’t apply any effort in our dance partnership, as a result we were stiff, out of step and on the verge of being embarrassed. We had to talk to each other and begin to have confidence in ourselves, that’s how I saw it.
It was then that she allowed me to lead her, and I followed her lead and we became the couple to demonstrate the doe-see-doe-in. We did become speaking friends and I noticed that she was not the lonely outcast girl anymore.
My Sadie Hawkins square dance elevated me to a new level of confidence. The shy unpopular girl who chose me to be her dance partner opened the door to me becoming 1 of the 10 lords a leaping through that school year.
That childhood experience set the foundation for confidence and my people interactions to this day. Look to yourself to lead, lead when called, and do not underestimate those chosen to enter your life.
My unnamed and faceless dance partner has become 1 of the 9 ladies dancing and I have self discovered another point for my resume and portfolio.
Not counting Fauntleroy or the famous actor and counting myself as 1, I will list 10 men in this edition and 9 women in part 2 that should be leaping and dancing thru 2012
Mycyber WWWebStarr Award:
Just for coming up with an award presentation platform and naming it WWWebstarr Award, thus validating Mycyber EFX, with Mycyber Talk and Mycybermap.com I receive an award. (subcategory/outstanding self promotion)
All other recipients are recognized and presented in no specific order, and the Mycyber WWWebStarr Award goes to –
For outstanding music,video and social media song and video for “Infectious”&”Change Up” *Micheal Brookins/ The SilverConductor
Outstanding Gospel artist, song and website song and video for “Don’t get it twisted” Rob Jones/Robjmusic
Outstanding Internet show or series “Get Thee Behind Me” the series Sid Burston/Gettheebehindme.tv
Outstanding Music, Film and social media website Jazzevangelist productions & promotions Scott Fugate /www.jazzevangelist.net
Outstanding Men’s Clothing website Christian Brothers Suit Company Horace Duran-cbsuits.net
eCommerce: Best Affiliate Marketing support Apco Merchant- D.C. Maryland, Virginia Keith Kuperman / apcodmv.com
eBusiness: Best business concept Second Life
Most Outstanding Atlanta business website ATL Profile Show-host Christopher Martin
International Music showcase Outstanding Band/Singer – Ove Engen – Liverpool, UK Oveengen.com
Congratulations to all the Male winners; and winners they are, take time out to meet these dynamic individuals who are one click away from your world. Find out for yourself why they have been chosen as stars on Mycyber map.
Looking back briefly, I see this Ladies choice event in my life as a significant building block. It was awkward and uncomfortable at the inception as will be the recipients reaction to being chosen Mycyber WWWebstarr.
There is a great line from Legendary actor Mr. John Amos in character as Kansas City Mack “you gotta bring A#% to get A#% “. As we work together we will value each other the more and elevate each other to our better dreams and wishes, that will be the inscription on the statuesque trophy.
We’re going Uptown Saturday Night, but before we work out Hotel location and award ceremony details, we have to select and present our Female winners in our next blog story..
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